Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008
You'd Better Watch Out
This event got me thinking. We may not know when we are being watched by a person that knows us; however God sees us at all times. In my life, though I do not nearly always succeed, I try to please God. Still, I don't ever want to do anything that would cause another Christian to stumble or bring dishonor to the name of Jesus.
I'll be honest, I'm so glad that there wasn't someone in front of me at the cashier's line who was buying lottery tickets. The look on my face and my body language may not have been a pleasant display for this brother to see. I was reminded of the importance of having the right thoughts and attitude, because, out of our those things, come our actions.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
In Spite of Us
During one 30 minute portion of the afternoon, we witnessed God's blessings and favor as God miraculously provided for our church. It was amazing. I use to think that I had to earn God's favor - that it was contingent on what I did and/or refrained from doing. I've come to realize that while I'm being transformed into the image of God's Son, while there is still elements of my human nature on display in my life, God loves me so much that he chooses to bless me. He does this even when all I am doing is trying.
Yesterday's blessings really shouldn't have come as a surprise. God does things like that for all of us. Beyond and more important than finances, provision and blessings is, as Peter put it, "The goal of our Faith, the salvation of our souls. Romans 5:8 says that "God showed his love for us, that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us". We didn't earn it and we didn't deserve it. But God is always faithful!
It's easy to get caught up in our human efforts. These will always disappoint. God's favor will never disappoint.
Friday, December 12, 2008
I Ate A Banana Today
One might imagine that a class with a title like that, would most readily apply to one's spiritual life. Indeed it does, and does it very well. However, I have been thinking that if I can't be disciplined in my physical body, how can I be disciplined in the spiritual realm?
This week in my devotions, I'm looking closely at those few days of Jesus' trial, death and resurrection. When I came to Matt 26:41 I read were Jesus told the disciples to "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing , but the body is weak." NIV
This verse got me thinking. "OK, what if the body is stronger?" I'm not talking about our fleshly nature, but the strength of our physical bodies. What would it do for my spiritual man if I had more energy, more focus and more stamina. Might I be able to pray more, read more of God's Word, think more, love more, and do more?
I also was thinking about the growing churches that I have been watching. Coincidentally most of those churches have leadership teams consisting of health and fitness "nuts" (I use that term in a most loving way). I wonder if they have known something that I'm just beginning to realize?
So today, before lunch, I got hungry and instead of the Star Crunch or Fudge Round (named for the shape that eating them regularly will make you), I opted for a banana. I have not eaten a banana since I was a child.
You're probably thinking, "It's just one banana on one day, what's that going to do?" Granted, one banana instead of a sweet treat, will not do much, but it is a start. Hey, one prayer on one day probably isn't going to make God's glory fall either, but one prayer is a start.
Maybe later I'll try eating a grape.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Rethinking Some Things Once Thunked
There have been times when I allowed my pursuits to get in the way of my family and then there were times when I let my family get in the way of God. Point is, I want to be a godly man, a loving and considerate husband, a caring and present father and a responsible and committed pastor. What does that leave to back away from. The answer hit me today, like a truck. School!
Now before you begin to think that I'm quitting school, please be assured that I am not. But I realized something important. The cost of a degree is far more than tuition, fees and books. My kids pay a price in the fact that time waits for no one - they grow up all too fast. The degree will always be out there, but the childhood of my children will not be. Priority check number one.
I also have become increasingly aware of my need for more of God. I need to move to the next level. A level that sees more of Christ's power evident in my life. Part of being that godly man that I desire to be, is becoming more of a praying man. I'm purposing in my heart to make 2009 a year of some firsts for me, spiritually. Somebody close to me recently asked me to go on a fast with him in January. Of course I'm praying about it and if the Lord so leads, I'm going to take him up on his request.
Priority check number two. Time to step up Dave!
Monday, December 8, 2008
Confession of a YESaholic
I've been mulling over the location of the definitive line between having a servant's heart and not being able to say "no".
On one hand scripture gives a mandate - IE: "Do not grow weary in doing good".
On the other hand, scripture also mandates rest.
I've come to one conclusion, when I get to the point in which I begin to do whatever it is I do poorly, than I must begin to say no to some things. I enjoy being busy and I never want to slight anyone who needs help; however, when I begin to stress over every minute of everyday for numerous days on end, then something has to change.
I like how Psalm 46:10 starts. "Be still, and know that I am God. There are some days ahead during which I will do just that.
Friday, December 5, 2008
Playing Games
Alex is getting quite good at bowling. Just a few minutes ago, he scored 214.
Even though playing games is fun and gives us opportunities to spend time together as a family, too much game playing would bring negative results. Picture this. A child is so involved in a game that there is drool running out of the corners of his mouth. Sound ridiculous? I've seen it!
There is good game playing and then there is playing games. We, all too often, play games with people, ourselves and, yes, even God. In my devo's today, I was reading the account of Jesus and Judas in the Upper Room. The message paraphrase has Jesus, telling Judas, "Don't play games with me." It made me think. Am I serious about my relationship with Jesus? In what areas of my life am I still playing games with God?
We've been entrusted with too great a message and too little time to spread it to be playing games.
Friday, November 28, 2008
A Great Answer
Monday, November 24, 2008
Leadership
1. We, as leaders, are the lid of the church. No person will be more excited, more passionate and more enthusiastic than we are. What is our energy level? What is the expression on our face saying? What are our actions modeling to the people we serve?
2. Are we actively recruiting leaders and are we constantly affirming them? Who are the "Eagles" in your church that you can empower and let soar?
The ride to and from the conference was equally informative. All praise to God, Grace Fellowship is growing. We have identified two things that we are doing.
1. Preach/Teach the Word
2. Love the People
We are striving to give every person that walks through the doors of Grace Fellowship the opportunity to
CONNECT:
- With God
- With People
- In Ministry
As our Lead Pastor always says, if we do our part, God is faithful to do His. It's amazing to watch Christ build His Church and His Kingdom.
Thursday, November 20, 2008
A Servant's <3
Let me just say that having a servant's heart does not mean that one is easy, gullible or a glutton for punishment, Neither does it mean that such a person is wearing the mask of servant hood while desiring attention and, doing so, just to climb the ladder of success.
In my devotions today, I read where Jesus said (paraphrase) Whoever would be greatest must become your slave.
If God has gifted you with a servant's heart than I am writing this for you! Thank You! God will richly reward you. You inspire me.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Lessons from a Business Card
"Oh be careful little eyes what you see."
Monday, November 10, 2008
Enter God
Thursday, November 6, 2008
Strive In Stride
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Even The Greatest Have Bad Days
Sounds crazy doesn't it? Yet, we often do the same. We have a great experience with God one day and then we find ourselves in the midst of a trial or hardship and we begin to question. You know something I've learned? God is big enough for questions. Just as John- The Baptist questioned Jesus through his disciples, we can ask questions.
Jesus said that there was no greater prophet than John- The Baptist, so, unless we are questioning to the point of despair and desertion, we can and God expects us to have some questions.
Having a bad day? A bad series of days? Ask God the reason why. He will either teach you something, use you in the circumstance, or the circumstance will make his deliverance even more spectacular.
Saturday, October 18, 2008
We're OK
NOTE: when your stopped in construction, it might be wise to keep an eye on the rearview mirror!
Thursday, October 16, 2008
New Poll! - Worship
PIGS
What amazed me the most, was the fact that the town's people had the Son of God - in the flesh - in their presence and they were more concerned with a bunch of pigs.
I was amazed until I realized how often I do the same thing. Everyday, I have the opportunity and privilege to be in the presence of Almighty God but many times I choose to involve myself with far lesser things - you know, the "pigs" of life that seem so important but seldom actually are.
God, help me to seek your presence daily!
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Charisma Vs Character
For years, I have been concerned with an apparent lack of charisma in my teaching and preaching. I have never been a pulpit pounder and our sound guys know to crank my mic way up to compensate for my counselor's voice. However, this passage spoke to me.
I'm not going to get into any discussion on the accuracy of The Message paraphrase; however I will say that the Holy Spirit did illuminate this passage to my heart and mind this week.
My Takeaway- Charisma is all fine and good; however, it can be faked. Character cannot be faked - one's true character will always come out. I don't want God to build anything in the ministry he has placed me in based on my charisma (or lack of it).
My Prayer - I pray that God will enable me to be a man of good character - character that is being transformed into the character of Jesus Christ, so that God may be glorified in everything I do.
Monday, October 6, 2008
Dotting the I - It's more than just a tuba player!
In my devotions the other day, I was reading Christ's words in Matthew 5:18 where it says that, "not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen will disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished". That's a powerful statement! Not even the dot of an I will become null from God's Word.
Have you ever heard anyone trying to rationalize scripture to fit their current situation, saying that what was written is not for today, not for them or, the worst, saying, "That's your interpretation." The beauty of this passage is that it is so straightforward. It would be a stretch to miss-interpret. In this world of "relativism" such a verse brings a head-on challenge.
God is faithful in that his Word contains the answers we all should be prepared to give. That's my prayer. "Lord, give me answers from your Word every day!
Oh, one more thing...
O-H
Thursday, October 2, 2008
From The WORD
The next morning, my devotions landed me in Matthew 5. I'm doing my devotions this year from a NIV/Message parallel Bible. In the message paraphrase of verse 3, it reads "You're blessed when your at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and His rule." My prayer that day was that God would rule in my life. That He would continue to be the center and an abiding presence in our lives.
I don't know what God will do to get us through this circumstance. But when we've done all that we can, and are clinging to a knot at the end of a rope - the rest is up to God. He is faithful!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Thought for the Day
Patience is sustained Intensity...
Wow!
Monday, September 22, 2008
"Katey"
Friday, September 19, 2008
Discipleship Challenge - Accountability & Transparency
I've been talking with a Christian brother from our church about starting a personal discipleship group (3 guys - myself included). That idea has sparked another one that includes my interest in blogging. Rather than and in addition to, posting random thoughts and analogies, I want to include a few lines about my daily devotions and prayer. In discipleship, accountability is important, it helps us spur each other on in our growth in Christ.
OK. Here is where you, the reader, come in. Beginning October 1st, if I don't post about my devotions and prayer life at least twice a week, you have my permission to call me on it.
Hmmm, If this post has made you think, you can always join in the challenge. How cool would it be, if many of our blogging brothers and sisters joined in. Blogging discipleship group anyone?
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Preparation
Let's face it, vocations get monotonous and mundane. When it happens, you realize what Clint Eastwood's character in the movie Heart Break Ridge meant when he said, "You can beat me and you can kill me, just don't bore me." I mean boredom is, well, boring.
I'm learning; however, that those times are often times of preparation, intentional times that God uses to teach us something about ourselves or a skill that He intends to use us in.
I learned the latter in a very real way this week. It seems that a skill that I learned in the past, while working in one of those mundane and boring vocations, will soon be put to considerable use - in ministry! Isn't that just like God.
If you feel like you're in a rut, and are going nowhere. Whatever you're doing, pay attention, God may be preparing you for something amazing.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Power's Back On - No More Amish Paradise
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Backing Up
Kind of reminds me of the times we Christians take what we have in Christ and cover it with our old ways or past behaviors. Maybe we hit a bump in our spiritual road and instead of allowing Jesus to renew us, we glue some black tar and gravel from our past or sinful nature to our lives.
Makes about as much sense as chip & seal over pavement. ???!!!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Just Breathe
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Let The Fun Begin
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Crushed
While we were leaving the building, Kaitlin saw a friend of hers walking toward us in the parking lot. Kaitlin ran to meet her, shouting her name. Her friend walked out and around her, never acknowledging Kaitlin's presence. Finally, at her mother's command the girl said, "Hi."
Kaitlin didn't cry, she took it in stride. About an hour after we returned home, Kaitlin asked me why the girl didn't even smile at her. Where do I even start? We have always taught our kids to be polite and friendly, with varying success. For the most part they are. Most importantly, we have taught them to be friendly no matter how they are treated by others.
I wonder about how often we are so absorbed in our own lives, that we ignore Jesus when He comes running toward us, so full of love and excitement. Does he feel rejected and crushed like Kaitlin did today?
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Life In The Passenger Seat
Tonight, I let Brandon drive to the store and back. He did fine as well. I'm excited that they're growing and experiencing new things. Beyond the practical-everyday stuff, they are becoming great men of God. That's what is exciting me the most, as that is what's most important.
Under 40
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Perhaps I Did Leave A Mark
I pray that something God had given me to invest into their lives will take root and grow. I walked away feeling like I had accomplished something. God is faithful!
Friday, August 22, 2008
Last Shift - Ponderings at the end of another chapter.
It has been saddening to witness the damage that family dysfunction, parental neglect and abuse causes in young lives. I could write papers on the relationship of nurture to the well being of children. Beyond the physical scars, the emotional wounds that many of these boys have suffered leads me to reaffirm my belief that only God could heal them.
However, there is a problem. A friend of mine once told me a profound fact. Spiritual truths will bounce off of a wounded heart. Wow, is that ever true. The Christian staff can witness, model and journey with these boys for years and sometimes one boy will begin to have a hint of the truth in his eyes. Most; however, while being able to quote entire chapters of the Bible, will still act in the same manner that earned them a court placement here.
Too often, as Christians, we forget that it is Christ's work in one's heart that heals wounds. While our attempts and actions may help to lead someone in that direction, the healing is all God. Sadly, until one accepts Christ and allows Him to heal their heart, our efforts often go unrealized in our eyes. Yes, there are the seed-planting analogies and, indeed, we must do our part for the Kingdom; however, the toll it takes on the staff, the community and society is great.
Perhaps the best way to defend the children of the future is in strengthening marriages and families, which is one of my callings and passions. I am looking forward to how God will continue to lead.
Friday, August 15, 2008
The Importance of Discipleship - Dividing The Word of Truth
I have been quite reserved in the expression of any opinion in regard to the Lakeland revival - first, out of a lack of interest and then, out of the fear of offending anyone.In recent months, I have spoke with a couple of individuals who went to Florida and attended the services. It was apparent that they had indeed experienced something incredible. However, when viewing footage of the services, I had some questions.
In light of the recent announcements from Florida, my questions have multiplied. I am not to say by what power the Lakeland revival has been operating. I haven't been there. God will, in fact, use who and what He wills to work through. However, when I hear words and phrases like, "new revelation", I get a little squeamish.
Today, more than ever, we need to know God's Word and use it to "test the spirits". I fear that we are part of a generation that can, increasingly, be deceived. Discipleship Classes are starting in September for our entire church. Young and old, new believers and life-long Christians alike will sit side by side as we go through the 16 Fundamental Truths of The Assemblies of God. I believe Bible doctrine needs to be revisited on a regular basis. What are you doing to "rightly divide the Word of Truth and teach sound doctrine?
The Dark Side
A few minutes later the entire youth group bursts into the upper foyer, with , well, very worried looks on their faces. I had been watching my son Brandon running up and down the office hall, checking each room for the missing computer. However, the whole youth group in a frenzy was more than I had hoped for.
When talk of calling the police began to circulate, I proceeded into my office and emerged with the laptop and handed it to Pastor Josh. The look on his face was priceless!
Yeah, I do have a dark side! And Pastor Josh is buying a lock for his office door!
Sunday, August 10, 2008
A Walk
Friday, August 8, 2008
Energy
Things are happening at Grace Fellowship. We're still proceeding at a deliberately slow pace , moving prayerfully and carefully. God is moving before us, guiding our actions and being the faithful Father. A favorite saying from our Lead Pastor is "It's a God Thing!" What else would we want? It is when we move in the energy of the Spirit, that things fall into place. We have been praying for children's ministries' leaders. In the last week, God has given us a full compliment of M'Pact-Girls Ministries and Royal Rangers - Boys Ministries leaders. We're believing God will do great things in these ministries and give us the privilege to minister to more families.
Energy! Nothing can beat the power and presence of God's Holy Spirit. More!
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Time
One of my favorite lines from a Star Trek movie (yes, I like Star Trek) is, "Time is the fire in which we burn." This fall will mark the beginning of my fourth year in college. It seems like an absurd amount of time has gone by since I stepped into that first class in 2004. It also seems like I should be finished, instead, I face, at least, another year to complete my bachelors degree. Even then, in the field of counseling, a Bachelors is considered a prep degree, as one must obtain a Masters to work professionally in the field.
I predict that I'm going to find it difficult, again, to juggle the demands on my time when school begins in September. This year, I became part of a volunteer staff at a new church. Because of this, it was my intention to only take two courses this fall, knowing that doing so would affect my school grants and financial aid. However, I didn't expect that dropping to a part-time status would decimate my grant awards leaving me to rely solely on loans. Ouch!
There is a part of me that, ashamedly, wants to quit chasing the proverbial rabbit called a degree. However, there is a larger part of me that wants to keep pushing through. I've decided to follow that larger and stronger part of me that wants those degrees very much. More importantly, doing so would be in obedience to the calling that God has placed on my life. I just registered for another full-time semester.
Time management has become increasingly hard for me. Recently, I've been working on a schedule that will allow me to be all that I need to be if I remain disciplined as a Husband, Father, Provider, Volunteer Associate Pastor and student. I'm going to do my very best and trust God to enable me to do each well. Time will tell!
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Simply The Spirit
Normally, our Wednesday night service is a Bible Study led by Pastor Josh (PJ) and it runs from 6:00pm - 7:15pm. Last night, we were still praying and praising at 9:15pm. It was incredible!
Really excited about some things spoken over my boys, confirming what God has been speaking to their hearts. Gotta love it when the Spirit uses someone you don't even know, or have talked to, to confirm something that you have been praying about.
Strive Youth Ministries remains small in number, but I believe that the Holy spirit sparked something in their hearts last night that will escalate into something beyond our wildest dreams.
It's easy to fall into a rut of trying to program church growth. It's refreshing to remember that it is "Not by might, not by power, but, by My Spirit, says the Lord"
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Faith - We BELIEVE or We Don't
Monday, July 21, 2008
WOW
First I have to give "mad props" (Konanese - I'm learning) to the people who comprise Grace Fellowship. They worked tirelessly in the heat and humidity to put on Summer Blast '08 this past Saturday. We estimated that a total of 400 people showed up to enjoy the food, inflatables, games and concerts. The Keelings were awesome and were well attended by the southern Gospel music lovers. Fast Awake, Cornell Jordan and Beyond The Rage really blew-it-up for Christ on the Patio Stage that evening!
Special Props to Beyond The Rage's lead guitarist Bret Sanor for sharing his testimony after the concert in the Youth Room. For a guy who died in an industrial accident, came back to life and fought back through 2o broken bones, 27 pins, 4 rods and being told that he would never regain total use of his left arm and hand, he sure wails an awesome axe. He's the real deal, he knows his Bible and he knows his Lord!
God is awesome and when his people are willing to be used in many ways, great victories happen.
Monday, July 14, 2008
God's Gonna Blow-It-Up Big!
One area that I have focused on, personally, is securing bands to play both inside the sanctuary and on the outside stage. We had scheduled a contemporary/gospel band to play inside and two Christian Rock bands to play outside. The tale begins here...
Monday, July 7, 9:30 AM - I get a phone call from one of the bands scheduled to play the outside stage, informing me that they can no longer participate in the event. No problem, after all I have almost two weeks to find a replacement, right?
Wednesday, July 8, 10:00 AM - My cell rings again, this time it is the other band very apologetically bowing out. At that point I had two options,(1)freak-out and allow the stress to pull my focus away from God's purposes, or, (2) go to God in prayer and ask for his help. Ok, I admit it, after freaking out a wee bit, I started praying. Within the hour from that time, God had given us another 2 bands, a pro sound and light stage and a lead guitarist with an incredible testimony! Oh yeah, the bands,who played the main stage at the Alive Festival this year, are playing for free.
We haven't even had the event yet and God gave us 28 visitors in church yesterday, brought about by the contacts made in preparation for this event! We have no idea how many people will be at this event but we are praying and believing God to work in and touch every life.
We will follow the event on Saturday by inviting all of the guests to FRIEND DAY on Sunday.
God is doing something amazing!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Monday, June 30, 2008
Unity of God's Message
What is God speaking to His church? Typically when you have a series of messages on the same topic, especially from different speakers, God is clearly sending a particular message. A message within a message that is always intended to draw us closer to Him.
Monday, June 23, 2008
A Locked Door
All was well and good until a thunderstorm moved in, dumping out a torrential downpour. People were running for cover: cars, awnings, or stores, anything to get out of the rain. Since we were cleaning the pet grooming shop, the lights were on. This led to many requests to come in, which I had to refuse. The weatherman called for thunderstorms and heavy rain, but I don't recall seeing a single umbrella or poncho.
It made me think of the many people that are cruising through, or simply watching others, cruise through life without a thought or plan for Christ's coming. Even with many warnings, many will be left outside the locked doors of Heaven in misery, missing the blessings of eternal life with Christ.
I wish I could have let them all in because I felt sorry for the people on the wet side of the door, locked by the boss's orders, I must admit that I was glad to be warm and dry.
In life, at death or at Christ's return, what side of the door will you be on?
Thursday, June 19, 2008
In All Things Great and Small - God is Good!
It was also great to see a fellow A/G minister. We were both used of God to minister to each other in a conversation after the meeting. When envisioning the future of Canton - God is good. When he chooses to use us to minister to the heart and life of one of his servants - God is good.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
PASSION
Are you intentional in your relationship with your spouse and the passion God has given you?
Wednesday, June 4, 2008
It's Going To Be One Crazy Summer
Finally, he informs me that he and his brother are going to be in a summer production of Disney's Beauty and the Beast . Robin and I are excited and happy for him. Because, well, this is Justin that we're talking about! We're seeing what we have been praying for come to be in his young life. He's excited!
When we walk through dark valleys, God is always there. It is amazing how much clearer and more beautiful the peaks on the other side of those valleys are. God is indeed fulfilling his promises!
Oh, and yes!, Brandon was inducted into Young and Alive with his rehearsals beginning in September!
God is good and nothing beats his favor!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
The Week
Robin has this knack for taking things that most would consider average and mundane and making them into a great experience and a lasting memory. Even going grocery shopping with her is a great time for me.
May is a busy month for us. With our anniversary and my birthday and Memorial day falling so close together, we tend to make it a week long party. This week, beyond the Memorial Day cookout/ Birthday Party, one of my most cherished moments was the opportunity for Robin and I to go to lunch at Jalisco's and then to snuggle in bed for a half-hour during the afternoon, and do absolutely nothing! No phone calls and no errands to run or places to go.
Connecting with my Dad was an added joy, as his schedule now allows frequent visits. It was great to have our family and my father seated around a table at ROADHOUSE enjoying some great steaks while watching Franklin Gutierrez hit a grand slam for the Tribe. Jalisco's and Roadhouse in the same day - no wonder I'm fat.
The ministry that God has called me to, often has me helping couples overcome the barriers that keep them from loving life together the way God has intended. Even with all of our faults, failures and problems Robin's and my life together is exciting and full of love. I often find myself questioning the thoughts behind the problems that other couples have. Sometimes, I really don't get it.
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
20 Years
Robin, You're the best! I love you!
Happy Anniversary!
Monday, May 19, 2008
BMV
At this point, I said a prayer of thanksgiving to God that this was happening in Salem and not in a town in the southeast suburbs of Columbus. If it were, the lady might have got it with a sock full of nickels by a friend of mine who has little tolerance for this type of thing. :)
Friday, May 16, 2008
Waiting for the News
The waiting is driving him bonkers and, in turn, has Robin and I anticipating a phone call from the director, informing us that he has made it through. As important as this is to him, I want him to know how proud I am of him and how much I love him. However, far more important is knowing that my son serves God and will make heaven to spend eternity with Him.
Even if he doesn't make it into the group this year, as long as he continues to serve the Lord and is pleasing to Him, he's won.
Love ya Brandon!
Tuesday, May 13, 2008
Perceptions - I'm short!
It's one thing to be physically shorter than most of the guys who I'm acquainted with around the district. But these events have a way of making one feel smaller, intellectually, socially and even spiritually. It's a very different feeling when you are surrounded by giants of the faith all the while they are towering over me physically. There is one guy, who is physically shorter than I am, but spiritually, he dwarfs me too.
But God is faithful. As I was leaving the service tonight, someone pulled me aside and spoke life into my spirit and confirmed my calling. I love it when that happens, especially when its someone you never met. I left that encounter with a new perception of someone - myself.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
Oh Stink
It didn't take me long to navigate the aisles and find my destination. I pushed open the door and... UGGHHH - it hit me like a shovel in the face. Behind the fancy oak door was a room reminiscent of the 60's. The room had green mason walls with bulky white caulk, chipped linoleum floor and a smell that reminded me of my Aunt's outhouse in her cow pasture.
As I stood there and pondered the incongruities of the environments that opposed each other on both sides of the men's room door, I thought about how often I have been like that. I may have appeared to be polished on the outside but deep inside, there was a foul-smelling and dingy room which was my heart.
God has done amazing things in my life and He has brought me a long way from the man that I used to be, but, I never want to stop moving away from that man. A whiff of that stench was a reminder that everyday is a choice and a chance to become more of what God wants me to be and less of what He doesn't.
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
I Think My Boys Are Getting It!
I was especially excited that the boys were willing to give-up their youth group night to go and minister through laughs, activities and friendship with a guy who has been through so much and is doing great! They are beginning to develop that Kingdom mindset that places others over one's own self.
It was great, pool balls were hit so hard, that they flew off of the table, we looked for a mop head to put on his portable IV stand (we thought better of it and didn't actually do it) and we named it Dolly. Every time it beeped, someone would say, "Shut-up Dolly".
My boys also learned lessons of being thankful for their health. We saw some sad sights, but also saw triumph over adversity. Did the boys miss youth group? Yes. However, I think what they took away from the visit and how our visit touched the life of a great friend, was every bit as good.
Yep, I think, they're getting it!
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
Monday, April 28, 2008
Ding-Dong - The Semester's Done
I did it, well, not perfectly, but I did it. I finished another semester. Some advice, in the unlikely event that any young readers actually read this. Go to College straight out of High School!
I think my brain is bleeding!
D is going to take a nap!
Friday, April 25, 2008
Community - It's Larger Than We Think
In our conversation, I learned that he had been serving with the pastor who had founded the church that had built the amazing building that God has blessed us with. I could see his excitement at what God is doing at Grace Fellowship and for what we are praying that God will do in all of the area churches.
I think, we often forget that God's Kingdom is far greater than our own church, our fellowship or our denomination. My takeaway from this unexpected visit gave me a real sense of community, in our area and in God's Kingdom.
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Jumping In
The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled so that you can pray. Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms. If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.
Monday, April 21, 2008
Stuff
I came home from Saturday evenings performance and said a prayer to thank God for giving me the ability to hear and appreciate the melodies, harmonies and the haunting lyrics of the show.
The over-arching theme of the show is redemption. The main character, Jean Val-Jean is a convict, who broke his parole and changed his life for the better. He later confessed his true identity to save an innocent man. Key to his changed life was a bishop, who made a gift of some silver for Val-Jean to become an honest man. That act of kindness changed Val-Jeans life!
When we look at people who have suffered, by their own doing or others, what have we done to show them mercy, love and to offer them a second chance. Isn't that what Christ did for us? Did he not offer us a second chance? And, a third, fourth, fifth...
Tuesday, April 15, 2008
Love
That line reminds me of the many times that Christ spoke about love while he was on the earth. He said that people will know that we are his followers by our love for one another. That when we do the simplest thing for someone else with pure motives, we are doing it as unto Christ. We are told to love our neighbor as we love our self. Love!
I'm trying to look at everything I think, say and do through the lens of love. To my embarrassment, I often cringe as I think about something I did and realize that it wasn't very loving. Jesus help me to love like you love.
Friday, April 11, 2008
Ministering to the Un-Churched
Last Sunday, our Lead Pastor asked two questions. First, what kind of people are we? Second, what kind of church will we become? Will we be a church that exists only for itself, never impacting our community with the Gospel or compassion? Or, will we have an impact that reaches far into the community, meets felt needs and proclaims the love and forgiveness of Christ in both word and deed?
There are those times, while ministering to the un-churched, that they say something or admit to something that shocks us. An important key to reaching them, is to not allow shock, surprise, disgust or fear show on our face, or be heard in our voice. If it does, the person will probably feel unaccepted and judged. These people hurt, they need a savior just like you and I. Jesus loved them, so much so, that he spent a great deal of time with the "un-synagogue" crowd. Can we be any different?
Monday, April 7, 2008
A Celebration!
Yesterday, we were officially welcomed as a family to Grace Fellowship. It was an amazing day! The Holy Spirit moved in both the AM and afternoon Celebration Service. God kept working miracles of provision throughout the day.
The highlight of my day, out of so many, was when a sister in-the-Lord, grabbed my hand and said that she felt like she has known me all her life and that she is so excited to have us there.
It was great to see so many of our fellow ministers from the East-Central section of the Ohio District A/G there! Their prayers for us were so heartfelt and appreciated.
This is and is going to be exciting! God is good!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Blessings
God is amazing and what he is doing is really exciting. In all of this I never want to lose sight of the fact that it's all about Jesus Christ and people. Christ loves mankind so much, that he moves mountains of obstacles to see his will accomplished. That is such a blessing!
Friday, March 28, 2008
WHY?
One of the things we discussed is the practice of being intentional, in everything we do. Every aspect of ministry must have an expressed purpose and a focused outcome. To determine those things, we can't be afraid to ask questions. The question that often reveals the most valuable information only has three letters in it. "WHY?"
Why are we doing this? Why should we do this? Why do we want to do this?
I guess, in a way, ministry is a lot like life. We need to ask ourselves, why we're doing what we're doing? Is our motivation pure? Will it get us where we want to be? More importantly, will it get us where God wants us to be? In writing this, I'm reminded about how we learned much of what we now know. We asked, "Why?"
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Worth The Wait
It's amazing what opportunities and fun times come our way if we are willing to wait for them!
Friday, March 21, 2008
Faith or Mind-What Matters Most?
To the world, on paper and to the realist, this decision probably doesn't make sense. But, when God is moving and asks you to take a leap of faith we dare not ignore the request, or worse, say no. In a frame on a bookshelf in my office is a printed copy of Mark Batterson's Lion Chasers Manifesto (yes, it's credited with his name). In it he says to stop worrying about what others think and be concerned with what God thinks. I looked at that again today. The center of God's will is a great place to be, regardless of all the "reasons" not to be in it.
What is God asking you to do? It may not make sense! But if you take the time to seek him and his perfect will, the places he will lead you far surpass anything you or anyone else can think of. What are you following, your faith or your mind? Your mind must enter the equation, but it must not overpower your faith.
Monday, March 17, 2008
In His Will
After a month and a half of prayerful days, sleepless nights, fasting, meetings and wise counsel, God has confirmed what his Spirit spoke to my heart in that January meeting. Long story short- On April 6, 2008, we will begin ministering at Grace Fellowship in Canton, Ohio under Pastor Keith Stephens.
We attended a service at Grace Fellowship yesterday morning, it was amazing. Both Robin and I sensed the Holy Spirit telling us that we were where he wanted us to be. As if that we're not enough we were met by many people expressing their enthusiasm in our coming and the need for the type of ministry God has gifted us to bring. We felt so at home.
We are excited about what God is doing and, at the same time, preparing for the transition. Leaving our current church will be difficult as our roots run deep - (Robin's great-grandmother founded Rogers Assembly of God). But with that sadness, comes the excitement. One of the greatest confirmations to us came when Robin realized how excited she was as God revealed his will. God is good!
Oh yeah, a note for my friend Gary Fowler - There is no whale, or even any water in sight!
Sunday, March 9, 2008
The Week
Have a great week and be blessed!
Dave
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
A Transparent Word of Caution
While part of me was full of excitement, I felt the Holy Spirit put a check into my heart. It wasn't a slamming door, or a definitive answer to our prayers, just a feeling that we were to use caution and prayerfully weigh our options to determine God's purposes.
Little did I know, just a hundred yards away, the pastor of the church, was in a room praying about the possibility of our coming, and was feeling a check in his spirit. It wasn't until a phone conversation, today that those checks had more clarity.
I never want to take for granted the importance of an honest word; it is refreshing and shows that we truly care, not only about what God wants, but for each other. God is still confirming his call for us to begin our vocational ministry; however, where that call is leading remains to be seen. Faith- Dave - Faith
Monday, March 3, 2008
God Speaks
Have questions? Need guidance? Ask the Holy Spirit to speak through the Word! It may not be what you want to hear, but it is always God's best interest for you.
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Roller Coaster In the Dark - What a ride!
However, after what seems like, and often is, hours, you finally find yourself at the gate that keeps you out of harms way from incoming and outgoing ride-cars. Your heart starts racing and your palms get sweaty as a brew of anticipation and apprehension develops in the pit of your stomach. Then a incoming chain of cars approaches and stops in front of you. The previous riders exit the ride and the gates open for you to climb aboard.
The thing is, once you're in and moving - that's it, you're IN for the entire ride! Imagine your surprise when you realize that this coaster is experienced completely in the dark. You don't know if you're going to go down a hill, turn left, or right until it actually happens.
Recently, God has revealed that he is leading us to the place of ministry he has ordained. A trusted individual gave me a confirming word, which I interpreted as God, opening the gate and saying, "Get in!" Funny thing is, we don't know where this ride is going as of yet, other than in staying in God's will. There are a couple of ministry opportunities that are open for further investigation to us. I pray that we stay "on track" with God's will and continue to enjoy the thrill of the ride in the process!
Friday, February 22, 2008
Impulsive Decisions
Abishai was getting ahead of God. As the account goes Saul lost his life, without blame on David or Abishai. Abishai was about to make a quick and possibly disastrous decision, one that could have not only hurt him but David and ultimately David's reign.
Robin and I are in a time of decision, I don't want to make impulsive decisions based on what I want, but what God wants. I pray that God will guide in his perfect will.
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
In response to Andy Warren's blog
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
NOW!
God, I desire to be in your will now and in the future. Don't let me miss out on what you are doing now and miss a step for what you want to do in the future.
Monday, February 18, 2008
I sit here today, trying to concentrate on some school work, well, at least concentrate on starting to concentrate on school work. Um, yeah. I have noticed that several of my favorite bloggers have not blogged today, and I'm completely out of sorts about it.
My world , I'm sure, has rotated at least a half a degree off of it's axis and I don't think the sun has moved in the sky - oh wait, it's cloudy - strike that.
When a guy lives in the land of online school and and is connected to the internet nearly all day, every day, one tends to get into a routine... So guys, help me out ;)
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Doors
I must admit, I've gotten used to looking at doors, especially closed, locked and even barricaded ones. Looking, watching and waiting for it to open. There is merit in waiting for the right door to open; however, when we wait for a particular door to open, wanting to go through that specific door, all the while ignoring all other doors, we may miss God's leading.
I wonder if we watch a particular door, wanting it to open because it would be easy to take that step. Maybe the door that God opens may look anything but easy. I'm reading the book, "In the Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day" by Mark Batterson. He writes about failing God, sins of ommission and ignored opportunities. Perhaps those opportunities are the opening doors that we are choosing to ignore because they don't fit the mold we've perceived and created for ourselves. Maybe, the opening door will make us stoop low to get through the doorway - acknowledging that it is only by God's power that we can succeed in the purposes behind that door. Maybe, behind the door is the lion that has been chasing us all of our lives. Do we dare miss the opportunity to slay it?
God, help me to walk where and when you lead, help me to face my fears and give you all the praise and glory for the victory over those fears!
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
GO - OOPS
Matt 28:18 - 20 NIV
Then Jesus came to them and said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."
We see the word GO on sanctuary posters depicting missions themes. A Christian band used this word to title their latest CD. Entire sermon series are preached from this word. But what does this word in Matthews Gospel really mean?
I was recently studying this passage (again) for a hermeneutics II (interpreting the Bible) class and was excited to find that the imperative verb is modified in these verses and is not "Go" but the verb form of the noun, "make disciples," or simply, "disciple". So where does that leave the word go in our understanding?
According to Dr. Leroy Bartel, in my opinion one of the greatest Bible scholars in our fellowship, the word go takes on a more relational meaning. Therefore the mandate or commission takes a more personal approach to winning souls for Christ and discipling the new believers. It speaks of "as we go about our life" we should be reaching, discipling and teaching people all the things that Christ teaches us through his Word.
It is no secret that the church has a discipleship crisis. Perhaps that is because we have been lulled into believing that if we are not called to be a missionary or pastor and we are able to say a quick prayer and write a check of support, we are excused from the great commission.
All of those things are great and necessary, but none of those things gets any of us off the hook. OOPS- I think we've been missing it.
Friday, February 8, 2008
He's Coming Home
Your prayers are still needed and appreciated.
Wednesday, February 6, 2008
Justin
Ps 37:5-6 NIV
Commit your way to the LORD;
trust in him and he will do this: He will make your righteousness shine like the dawn,
the justice of your cause like the noonday sun.
Justin - (meaning) Righteous, just
Friends
Friday, February 1, 2008
Where do you hide your heart?
Floor to ceiling bathroom stalls can cause problems. Sure, for privacy it's great. But, you never can be sure if anyone is in there. Such was the case during a sport show in 1999. I was giving seminars (on walleye fishing - I used to compete on the professional tournament trail) and working at my sponsor's booth, promoting product. About half way through the day, I was encouraged by some positive remarks from a company exec. as to my future with their product and company. Later that same day, a friend of mine, took me aside and told me of a conversation he overheard while, well, sitting in just such a bathroom stall. In short, he heard the very same company exec, who hours before was singing my praises, tell someone how he had it made. "Dave Kidd mentions our product in his seminars, magazine articles or when he's on ESPN or TNN and we sell a bunch of product. But, we're just using him now when he's cheap, when his name demands any significant money, we'll dump him!" I'll never forget that day - it crushed me. I vowed that no one would ever use me again!
A while back I finished reading Confessions of a Pastor by Craig Groeschell. In it he says not to take too seriously the comments of either your fans or your critics. Wise words. Sometimes the very same ones who give you the highest compliments will turn and hand you your head on a platter minutes, hours, days or years later. That's human relationship. Knowing that, it is so tempting to just hang out the "closed" sign and live my life in peaceful obscurity. But I have this problem. I can't hide my heart. If I do, I can't help people. I can't get close enough to people, or allow them to get close enough to me if I have hidden my heart in an effort to protect it. Hiding my heart would turn everything God has called me to do into a train wreck.
Are you hiding your heart? Are you too afraid to get close enough to people to reach them for Christ? Think you'll be hurt? Guess what? You will be, and the sting of it will always be a memory in this life. Again, are you hiding your heart? Imagine if Christ hid his!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Simplicity
I've got a dilemma. I've found what seems to be a dichotomous relationship between what I'm being taught in Bible College and the "real church world". One camp says to utilize the gifts of administration and vision to open up channels for the Holy Spirit to move and work in a more unhindered fashion in our churches. The other camp says any such administration and vision are an effort to yank the reigns from the Holy Spirit's leading and guidance of his church.
Are we afraid to exercise gifts of administration and vision because doing so requires effort? Or. Do we assume the posture of allowing the Spirit to lead, simply because it's easier? I will never question or compromise my belief in the importance of the Holy Spirit's leading. I'm asking why these opposing views have lined up as they are? Ironically these "camps" all reside in the same place - the body of Christ. I was told and I've subsequently found out that ministry was extremely rewarding but seldom easy.
To my relief and to my excitement, this Thursday, I get to spend some time with some guys I greatly admire and whom God is using to do some great things in their church. The topic - a review of the book Simple Church. Yeah, that's what I need right now.
Monday, January 21, 2008
God is Moving
He is open and searching!
Beyond the miracle of new birth, it is never any less amazing each time someone accepts Christ! Please read my previous post. Just because people are not comfortable with the church, does not negate the fact that they want Jesus.
Pastoring the flock,
Dave
Friday, January 18, 2008
Beyond Proclamation - There must be a hand.
Several months back, my daily devotions landed me in Zechariah, chapter 11. As I was reading, verse 4 caught my attention. It says, "Pasture the flock marked for slaughter". Funny thing was, I read it as "Pastor" instead of "Pasture". Later that same day I read the passage again, and again I read "Pastor".
It wasn't until several days had past, during which I sought the Lord as to why this verse spoke to me, that I noticed that it said "Pasture." Surprised and embarrassed at my oversight, I began to dig into this passage and realized that God was telling Zechariah to lead-shepherd-pastor rebellious Israel.
What does this have to do with me? Good Question! It's the same question that I asked God in my prayers since that day.
Here's my take on it. Too often, there are people who seem to be written off by the church today as stubborn, unchanging, destined to fail and beyond hope. They're "marked for slaughter", both by their unrepentant hearts and and by Christians who deem them unworthy of the effort it would take to reach them.
These people will hardly set foot in a church (who would blame them after being written off), they won't sit under the proclamation of the Word and they won't join in a fellowship with the people they perceive as those who could care less.
However, just as God knew that there would be hard times in the future of Israel, he knows that there is coming a time when these "write-offs" will no longer have the chance for redemption.
If they won't sit under the proclamation of the Word in a church-building, then the Church needs to reach out to them. What does it take? Relationships! I know now why God would not allow me to declare a college major in anything other than Church counseling ministries - it's relational. It's reaching out to the lost, hurting, rejected and seemingly hopeless with a message backed by a physical expression of God's love and power.
Proclamation is great, but only if it is heard. The Word is powerful and even more so when presented in a relevant way by a caring, outstretched hand.